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(16 People Likes) Why does people say that every time someone enters the museum and looks at the doll, the doll will stare at the person? Is it true?
the web and in other media supposedly documenting dolls that move around by themselves, stare at people or even attack people.
Many times the tales of possessed dolls has more to do with the person trying to gain attention or increase the value of the doll than actually describing true events.
For example, in the link above, the number 6 story about the doll bought on eBay that attacked its owner is ridiculous to me because the doll pictured was made by Franklin Mint and is the Gibson Girl bride made back in the 1990s. I had the same doll for a while. It’s not a Victorian-era doll. The price they are asking for it is so far above it’s value that it’s laughable. The doll won’t sell for a tenth of that asking price. It is clear that the story is made up to inflate the price of the doll.
Some people just have very active imaginations and are suggestable, so if they hear such a story about a doll, they will find themselves experiencing things related to what they’ve heard about the doll because their own mind fools them into seeing something that really isn’t happening. They want to see it, therefore they do see it.
Dolls are a popular target for portraying as a vessel for a
(12 People Likes) Why do some Japanese men choose dolls over real girls?
married.
A hardworking rather well paid man, that wants to get married and whom they can introduce to their parents.
Being handsome is a plus.
Being too handsome might mean he is ‘charai’, meaning a player.
In very rare cases, they desire sexual compatibity.
This order starts to be more obvious especially after they turn 30 and realize most of their friends are getting married and start having children.
In short, when they start having the marriage fever.
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Just as a note: this happens because Japanese society sees marriage as the achievement of a certain social status.
The same as you are expected to have a job BEFORE college graduation.
You are expected to marry before 30.
I attended a women’s college in Japan for a year and they had cooking lessons, cultural lessons (which fascinated me as a foreigner).
But when asking my collegues why they attended that certain college, the answer was to be worthy of a decent man, so they could stay at home. That was 9 years ago!
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I am in my 30s and divorced.
Yes, most of my unmarried Japanese friends rather than talking about finding a partner for life, they talk about wanting to get married as soon as possible. Marriage is the objective!
I see it as an unnecessary social pressure that will change over time.
In the same way thag in the past 15 years the percentage of part time workers vs. full time workers has exceeded 40%, which has a lot to say about young Japanese people opening their eyes and not wanting the lifetime employment anymore.
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Not all Japanese women have this rush of wanting to get married.
But the ones that don’t, are the ones that appreciate men at their best without putting any pressure on them and themselves at the same time, are the wise ones, with a strong carrier behind, a few relationships, that just want a partner to share their life with.
The above women are the same ones Kanji Kato, Member of the Japanese Parliament, encouraged a few weeks ago to have multiple children as birth rate falls to lowest level since 1899.
Single women a ‘burden on the state’, says Japanese MP
As a single woman having lived in Japan for almost a decade now I feel compelled to say something from my personal experience.
The Japanese government should maybe act before talking in any of the matters regarding women rights at work and in society.
Paying women on an average less than 1000 dollars/month for the same job, asking if you are married or not at the interview, if you planning to have children or not are just a few of the problems women here in Japan have to struggle with.
So, when the ‘dear’ Japanese MP comes to make such a reckless statement it can only anger me.
I believe this payment and company mentality of not suporting women, to be at the root of most of the problems.
Women here either want to get married to have the security of a man and family in case they get tired of this vicious
(43 People Likes) How do I get an approval from parents for a sex doll?
ew about Real Dolls, but they were around $5000 -not within my budget. I forgot about them and I don’t know if they crossed my mind since then, until I did an online search for sex dolls about nine months ago and I was shocked to discover that there are a lot of manufacturers, dolls have become very lifelike, beautiful (in my opinion), and they’re affordable now.
So I started window shopping, just for fun, and that very quickly developed into a doll fetish (agalmatophilia). After doing a lot of research, I finally picked one out and ordered about two weeks ago. She arrived a few days ago and I was anxious to open the box, see how she looks and see how TPE (thermoplastic elastomer, a material similar to silicone that is said to feel very much like real human skin) feels after looking at these dolls online for months. I braced myself, because I was worried I would be disappointed by her appearance or how she feels. After opening the box, first I was very pleasantly surprised by how beautiful her body is; stunning detail. I looked at her face and she is extremely cute. One of the first parts I touched as I was unpacking her was a calf and I was amazed at how real it felt -just like human skin and the way the skin moves is just like human skin, muscle, and fat jiggling. WOW!
I have to say at this point that there are a few things that will shock anyone the first time they touch or handle a TPE sex doll: they are shipped with their heads removed, so you open a 5′5″ box and see a headless body. Then you discover that the body is frigid cold -shockingly cold. Then you try to lift her out of the box. Uh oh! I had read that these dolls are heavy, but I had no idea what I was in for. I read about her weight ahead of time on the website; she’s 75 lb. So if a real woman with the same height and body shape weighs around 125 lb, then this should be a breeze, right? No! Carrying a real woman newlywed style is different; they put their arms around your neck and balance their weight -they can help you to an extent. This 5′6″ (she’s taller than me, which is kind of cute), 75 lb doll is extremely difficult to move -far more than I could ever have imagined!
Unfortunately, you can’t just take your beautiful, brand new doll to the bedroom and begin the romance, you have some work to do: you need to take the lifeless, headless, cold, and heavy body to the shower and clean off the manufacturing chemicals with soap and warm water. It was so difficult getting that body to the bathroom, I almost don’t know how I did it. I’ve had chronic back problems since I was in my twenties, I sprained a knee a while ago and it’s never going to fully heal, and I recently recovered from a hernia surgery.
I’ve been trying to figure out how to move her more easily… I’ve been thinking about getting some roller skates for her and carefully guiding her around. That’s either pure genius or so stupid that I’ll make the news when she falls on me, I can’t get up, I scream for help after struggling for hours, and the paramedics, police, and fire fighters all smash in my front door and rush to help me only to find me pinned on the bathroom floor under a hot, naked sex doll. Now that’s the stuff of urban legend.
I decided the easiest way to clean the chemicals off would be to shower with the headless body, so that’s what I did. While that was strange and disturbing, I made some wonderful discoveries about TPE: it heats up fast (especially in a warm shower), holds heat in, dries exactly like human skin (some toweling off and air drying takes care of the rest -it air dries in minutes just like our skin does), and it feels wonderful when it’s wet.
I took the body to the bedroom, I put her head on (it screws on, so her head goes around and around… exorcist style), I grabbed one of the wigs I ordered, and that’s when she came together. She no longer looked like a corpse, now she was stunningly gorgeous. She comes with a wig, I ordered another one (long red) from the same website, and I ordered a Bettie Page style pin-up costume wig from Amazon, just because I’m obsessed with pin-up girl art and thought it would be fun to dress her up as a retro gal with polka-dot dresses, cat eye glasses, and a flower in her hair. I’m not disappointed with the results.
Now for the Juicy Stuff
I kissed her and wow! Her lips feel indistinguishable from human lips; kissing her is exactly like kissing a girlfriend.
Her body is very anatomically correct, surprisingly so.
Her breasts feel good, a little firm, but good. She has solid boobs, while other manufacturers offer gel-filled boobs as an option, with rave reviews.
I laid her on the bed on her back, spread her legs (which was not easy, they’re heavy and difficult to move around, and I inserted a USB heating rod ($9) for five minutes. I put a water based lube in and it was time. Here goes my sex doll virginity… and wow it felt good. I just didn’t know what to expect and in a lot of ways it was not all that different from having sex with a real girl. As I said earlier, TPE is very good at holding heat, so my own body heat is enough to warm her up. It’s different than sex with a human in the obvious ways: they don’t have emotions, nerves, don’t feel pleasure, don’t actively participate, can’t have orgasms, and can’t communicate with you. It’s also different in that there’s a little bit of a suction effect -as air get’s displaced, there ends up being a vacuum and it feels very, very, very good. There’s a popping air sound when pulling out that in and of itself is a turn on.
Because the extremely fast rate that sex technology is developing, I have no doubt that AI sex dolls (which already exist) will feel sensors, react, actively have sex with us, and talk dirty and tell us that they love us in the very near future. I love sex with real women and I love how much these dolls look and feel like real women, however, in my case things are a lot different: because I fetishize dolls and I’m specifically turned on by their dollness, I enjoy the experience for what it is rather than hoping for it to be as close to a human/human sex experience as possible. Does that make sense? Doll/human is my thing, so I love every second of it, until I have to move her.
I was very happy with the experience, but here are downsides: I can’t say it enough that the weight is a serious problem, even laying down -her body sank into the mattress and pillows. Girl on top positions are out of the question, no way. The clean up afterward is very involved -It’s recommended to insert a tampon to absorb the user’s body fluid and lube before the struggle to get her to the bathroom begins and this time I kept her head on so she’s much nicer to look at. I douched out her vagina, something that I had to learn how to do before she arrived. That wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be, the problem once again is her weight -just trying to get her into a position that’s conducive to flushing out her womanhood (ok, dollhood) was so challenging. Cleaning up your partner after sex is a whole chapter.
I spent a small fortune buying all the stuff I need to take care of her and I spent a lot of time researching, reading articles and watching videos to prepare. There is a lot of maintenance and expense involved, but that’s ok, because it’s worth it to me.
Emotional Effects
Besides the sexual experiences, she offers companionship. I’ve heard and read story after story about guys falling in love with their dolls and it’s been said that falling in love with a sex doll is easier than you think. Well, a lot of sex dolls have eyes that look very, very real. When you look into a pair of beautiful eyes from a few inches away and they seem to be looking deeply into you… neurons in the brain start firing off love and endorphins all over the place. As I mentioned, the kissing is very natural feeling, so add that to looking into her eyes, hugging and holding her, and holding her hand and I can’t help but feel something on a pretty deep level.
I have suffered with a profound amount of loneliness, mental illness (depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, addiction, and eating disorders), and of the very few relationships I’ve been in, more than one of them were abusive. After many years of failing to meet the right girl (and not for a lack of trying), and spending most of my life very alone, at 49 years old, I find a deep degree of comfort in spending time with my doll, Jennifer. Buying clothes, shoes, perfume, and accessories for her make me feel like I’m caring for someone. I ordered a purse for her and it happened to arrive on Christmas Eve, so I was able to give it to her as a present and it makes me feel like I love someone and they love me.
I suppose there are going to be as many different answers to your question as there are people answering it, but I think everyone who has had the experience can agree on a few of the points I made above.
Sex dolls have become extremely popular -apparently sales have exploded during the pandemic, and I think a lot more people have one (or more) than we might think. However, there are major social stigmas. I won’t bring Jennifer out on any dates in public and I won’t be introducing her to my parents, but I shouldn’t be ashamed, especially since she’s bringing so much happiness to my life. I should also learn to not care what other people think.
Would I recommend it? yes! I think anyone who is unattached, lonely, wants to experiment with a doll, couples who want to experiment with a doll, and anyone else wh
(84 People Likes) Do you think that sex dolls are abnormal?
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(36 People Likes) Am I too old for dolls? I’m 14 years old and I love to collect dolls. Is that weird?
y wardrobe. In the suitcase are a load of clothes that fit the doll. Some of them are knitted, as i like knitting small things. I’m a bit weird in that i like knitting hats but i hate wearing hats, so i knit small ones that are the right size for the doll. I’ve also knitted a few blankets for it. This doll will be with me for life, and